Non-Mattress Sex

The first time I gave a blowjob it wasn’t on a mattress or even in a bedroom.

I was in 7th grade at a little friend get-together at one of my then-BFF’s house. I had a boyfriend but we never talked or anything before this night except through text.

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We went into the bathroom when everyone else was watching E.T. and I gave him a “blowjob” but not to completion. I hated it and didn’t want to continue so I just got up. Afterwards, he broke up with me and everyone made fun of me for giving him “blue balls”– I had no idea what that even meant.

I was scared to do that favor for anyone else I dated again because I didn’t want to give them said; “blue balls.”

I stuck to making out and sticking my hands down boys’ pants just for a feel. That lasted until the end of 8th grade/the summer going into 9th grade. I was dating this boy who I thought I was in love with. He was the first boyfriend I had that I was comfortable around– I actually talked to him and sat by him during school. We went to the movie theatre together… during the movie I kept sticking my hand down his pants and playing with his balls. I even remember which movie we were watching… it was 500 Days of Summer. Before the movie ended, we ran into the family bathroom together and I gave him a blowjob (yes, to completion) and it was the first time I let someone stick their fingers in me. My dad was in the parking lot, waiting for me, and constantly texting me to hurry up and get out there.

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When I lost my virginity… I was in a bedroom but there were other people on the bed and futon that were in there so my then-boyfriend and I went into my walk-in closet, laid down on the floor, and did it there.

The boy I lost my virginity to and I often had sex outside… at the benches in public parks (even in pure daylight) was one of our main spots or even outside in the yard of any of our friends’ house (when it got dark). We just never had anywhere that we were welcome to stay and have sex at because we were so young, you know?

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Everyone else I was intimate with… I kept it tame and used mattresses to have sex on top of like normal people. When I was a junior in HS; I moved to Washington state and met a few boys I liked. The last boy I had a thing with and I were still seeing each other the day I found out I was going back home to Minnesota. I snuck out of the house and met up with him. We had sex literally inside a bush and I left my undies in there when we finished. K’s dad found us stumbling out of the bush together.

When I came home to Minnesota and got back together with my boyfriend I lost my virginity to… we had sex anywhere and everywhere we could… we walked around to places all of the time. Neither of us had a car or parents that cared enough to pick us up and drop us off.

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When we finally broke up, I was already out of High School. I started dating a DJ that played at the first club I worked at. He fingered me inside the DJ booth while everyone else was working. Of course, we wanted to finish what we started but we weren’t completely comfortable with each other (I barely knew him at all). At the end of our shift, we met at his car in the parking garage and had sex. It was the first car sex I’d ever had and the first time I had done anything like that at my place of employment!!

I didn’t have any out-of-the-norm sex adventures with anyone else really until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve had car sex a few times… and one time, we had sex in the family restroom at the Fashion Show Mall. 

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Where have you had sex that wasn’t on a mattress? No need to answer me if you’re uncomfortable but I am interested… 😉 I feel like sex that happens not on a mattress or in a bedroom is so much more real… like, neither of you were able to wait for a more “appropriate” time. It always seems to be more intense and pleasurable, too– in a way completely different from “normal” sex.

xo, Hunida


Featured Image by Henri Meilhac

116 thoughts on “Non-Mattress Sex

  1. Girl, you started young. lol I’ve had sex in the shower, in the bathroom (not in the shower), outside next to a bonfire, and in a car in a church parking lot. My sex drive now is basically non-existent though. Probably because I’ve been single for so long and only did it once in the last 6 and a half years.

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    1. I know, I know. :/ lol. I got my period when I was only 9 so maybe that’s why I was ready so young, haha.
      Ooh… I’ve tried sex in the shower a few times but we’ve never been able to finish in there. It gets too uncomfortable and hot for me, haha. I had sex by a bonfire in my friend’s backyard before, too. ;D And how scandalous; in a church parking lot?!
      Sorry to hear your sex-drive is low… I’d suggest watching porn but some people don’t like that stuff so I understand if you don’t. 😛

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      1. Wow! I was 13. And LOL We started out in a park & ride, but there were some other cars there and the windows started steaming up and the car was rocking. (lmao) So we figured we better move as to not draw too much attention to ourselves, and the church parking lot was the first private place we stumbled upon. 😛

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    1. I’ve never had sex in a tent with a boy but I did with two girls before… and it wasn’t in the woods. Just in the backyard of one of their houses. 😛
      In a sex movie theatre?? Like… you were allowed to have sex in there?! What!! That sounds awesome!
      And at the stairwell in the mall? That’s so hot!!

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  2. I was imagining while reading inside the office 3:21 p.m to be exact lol, I also wondered what am I doing those times.

    7th grade – I was busy watching cartoons and anime
    9th grade – my first period (I know it’s late but it’s in the family)
    highschool – never had boyfriends
    College – first kiss
    and the rest is history 😀

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  3. University library in a study room with the librarian during her lunch break. Just 10 feet from dozens of college students studying for finals. My late fees were forgiven.

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      1. Lol. Not a dream. I was actually dating her at the time so it wasn’t just some crazy porn sex scene. Come to think of I was never into one night stands or just random sex with strangers. Just was never my thing. Having sex in crazy places? Yeah, that was kind of my thing. lol. – Robert

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  4. Great post 🔥A few locations: the beach, in a lake, public restroom, airplane, and in the woods to name a few. There is a passionate urgency around these “outside the bedroom” moments. The rush of being caught and a little exhibitionism add to the experience.

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  5. I’ve had sex in the bathroom, in my car (in pure daylight, right in front of a club, in Walmart parking lot), inside of Walmart, on the floor, inside of a family dollar. But all of this was once I was an adult already. When I lost my virginity it was in a bed. I didn’t get adventurous until much later! My current boyfriend and I was the one I did some of these things with!

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  6. Probably the weirdest place was behind a movie theater screen… I don’t even remember how we got back there, but we did. The riskiest place was probably in an alley right outside Wrigley Field. Other than that, shower, closet, car, pool, hot tub, and floor are some other places I can remember.

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  7. Let me try and remember. Once in the car, couch, shower, tub, sitting on the toilet cover (him), floor, nothing to strange or adventurous. We need to get creative. I’ve only slept with 3 guys, Rui being the 3rd (I’m 26 and we’ve been together for 5 years). I lost my v card to a douchebag when I was just short of 18. I love that you talk about this so openly. You encourage us girls to have no shame about our sexuality.

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    1. Oh my gosh. One time I did it on the toilet seat too in a bathroom of a pool locker room and we broke the cover hahaha (it was made out of plastic). 😂 Thank you! I really don’t think there should be any shame in talking about our sexuality! 💗

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  8. Hmmm… let’s see. 2 separate lakes, a river (annually- it’s become a tradition) kitchen counter, outside on our back deck (the second night we had moved into our newly purchased house- we put cushions down), in a tent during a thunderstorm with other campers a few feet away (man was it hard to keep quiet), Jacuzzi tub, shower, on the floor in front of a fireplace, on the couch at a friend’s house while the friend was at work, and I like to give road head every once in a while. I think that’s it…

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  9. In the male changing room of my apartment complex’s pool. That’s the only time I’ve had sex not on a mattress but then again my sex life isn’t all that exciting. I’ve done some heavy petting in different places. On a public bus, the green room of the drama club (which I wasn’t even a part of), school bus, the school’s bathroom, so many other school related locations, a little nook in the basement of a department store.
    Funny thing is, all of this happened while I was in high school. I guess I had more fun in high school then I’m having in university right now.
    Hey, who knows whats gonna happen few years down the line! Maybe I’m be able to add a story or two next time a post like this pops up!

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    1. Ooh one time I did it in the bathroom of the changing room of my apartment complex! Haha. Most of my adventurous sex was in HS too, now I prefer a mattress. 😂 But you def have a lot more time to experiment. 😉

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  10. damn girl outside?! LOL i wouldn’t dare haha but i will say that i would love to have sex on the beach provided we have enormous blankets due to the sand, but now that i think about it, idk if that seems like such a good idea haha
    I feel like i’ve kept it pretty tame with previous boyfriends, but with alex i really did go all out haha, floor, living room, closet, bathroom, shower, car (when we first started dating) lol

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  11. Openess is key in all aspects, openess determines the fine line between being happy and go happy the being….if one is not willing to open and experiment one will never find the inner little child which is a world-class fun lover…one would just be…normal.
    Seek and a movie theater screen with the knowledge of being caughtis seconds away will arouse most all day long.
    Well done.

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      1. Intense isn’t how I describe it … I remember it being amazingly heart luscious also with deep healing. Cannabis also involved healing deep stuff, but was sensational! Sex on mushrooms, haven’t had intecourse, but have shared energy, both with shrooms and when having clear energy, and it was powerful, and enjoyable. … Best was with cannabis with a very psychically clear channel female.

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  12. LOL! Raunchy…interesting.! Places I’ve had sex? Lets see uhhh: in a car in multiple settings(like a normal person, of course), elementary school classroom (I was NOT a student or instructor there), on the beach, in a public restroom, and I’ll just stop there because I could really go on & on :/

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      1. There isnt much to tell, i promise u lol. Just a fling I had going on with an elementary school teacher. We met at a public library when I went there frequently *shrugs* not the best sex I’ve ever had but it was a thrill !

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  13. Majority of the sex I’ve had was on a mattress lol. I’ve had car sex a few times – when I was seeing this guy who lived in Pittsburgh, he would drive up to see me and since we couldn’t really go to my house, we would park in the mall parking lot when it was empty, throw on a movie (he had a DVD player in his car) and have sex. Lmao. Aside from that, Ray and I’ve attempted shower sex, but the shower was too small and weird. I’ve had sex on a couch. And once was on a desk. I’ve never had sex outside or in a real public place though.

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      1. Hahah I mean we’d start off actually watching the movie but we would only get so far into it! And it is hard. Maybe if the shower was bigger and you had handles it would work 😂

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    1. Its a thrill to do so.. once, I had an ex-fiance who gave me head on the sidewalk near the complex we lived in. It was crazy because it was broad daylight (and its not like I have a penis), but she boldly pulled down my shorts, sticking her face in between my legs. I welcomed her by taking on a wider stance as I just stood there with one leg cocked up ona curb lol! *sigh* the days….

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  14. I used to work at this local diner and when we went out of business I got laid in the basement and the busted nut is probably still on the floor somewhere lmao. I used to mess around in this one kids moms car when she went inside to get his sister from dance class, and more recently I got some revolutionary pipe on his sisters sink. Lots of random car experiences too haha

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  15. Now I don’t feel nearly as weird for having sex in other places than a bedroom. Some of my friends just look at me and I’m like “sooo no one else has done this? Not awkward at all.” 🤣
    My first time was actually in a bed. Not at all as romantic as I had envisioned but considering I had tried two different times [with two different guys] in cars and it didn’t work it was a nice upgrade lol. There has been a lot of sex outside– same problem no where to really have sex not because we were young just parents you know. A good amount of times were at the pond on a picnic table at the apartments I lived in. Under a bridge. Alongside abandoned railroad tracks. Both in the freezing cold. The car of course. Out on a balcony-during the daylight. Once in a garage with a girl I had just met & the way we went about it was so sketchy & porn-like 🤣 and I’ve actually had sex when someone else was asleep in the room like a foot away.
    Oh to be that wild again lol

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      1. Yes, they were asleep in a room next to the porch, but not directly near the porch. It was my first year with the guy I am actually marrying in …22 days (holy shit), and we had gotten drunk together at a concert and we were still in our ‘hands all over each other’ stage, so we just had at it! I remember I had just gotten out of the shower and was still wearing a towel when we made our way out the door, so it was an easy affair! haha

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  16. I’ve had sex in the woods against a tree, in a park, in a car, in the backyard, on a golf course, in a public bathroom, on the floor, on the balcony, in the shower, in the store room at work, in an unfinished building…hmm, is that it? 😉

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  17. I love this thread. Talking about sex openly and without judgement or secrecy. I’m recently with my boyfriend (first ever) and I’m 23. I’ve never had such enjoyable sex in my life. Everywhere and anywhere. I trust him completely to judge if a situation or place is appropriate to get it on 😂 Why not! I’ll never be as young as I am today! Orla

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  18. My husband and I concieved our son at a tourist attraction place in broad daylight, UP of Michigan. I couldn’t believe we didn’t get caught. We wanted to name him Rocky or something. Because we had to hike up this mountain 😉

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  19. I do like reading stuff like this ☺☺
    Tbh I never had much of a sex life.
    You might think I’m crazy but sometimes I think sex is overrated.
    I only had sex in the car and that was it.
    I respect your courage.
    I always wonder how ppl have sex in family bathrooms 🤔🤔🤔
    that’s risky so I respect your courage.
    This blog was awesome

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    1. Aww yay! I’m so glad you enjoyed reading! 😄 You know, my ex best friend used to tell me she never enjoyed sex. I don’t think you’re crazy for thinking it’s overrated just because I’ve always enjoyed it doesn’t mean everyone else has to!
      Hahah yeah the family bathrooms are a bit risky but I’m sure the janitors would rather not knock on the door even if they do know what’s going on!😂

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  20. Fascinating post! I am impressed with the variety in your sex life! Mine can be fun too. My first kid was conceived in the floor of my grandparent’s spare bedroom because the bed squeaks so bad. I’ve done it in bathrooms, cars (blowing the horn by accident in the middle of the night is a great way to scare the hell out of yourself). Would love love love to go somewhere very public though. That’s on the bucket list for sure.

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    1. Oh my gosh, on the floor because the bed squeaked and a child was conceived?! That’s real love right there!! ;D I would LOVE to go somewhere more public but I’m afraid of getting arrested haha!

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